I msged you because of post/51736155470 I do not choose to be anyone’s babygirl. It is who I am as I said before.
Meaning – I do not regress because of a man who happens to be Daddy or a carer.
I do understand though that for some it is a game. This is sad for those of us who are not playing a game.
It makes it hard to find a Daddy who is sincere and understanding of what his role should be, since so many girls play games and the rest of us are just because we are the way we are. :3
Sweetest Sarah: posted on tumblr
Thank you very much for both of your replies. I just wish I could spend an hour telling you my thoughts, but here you have placed some of them out there for me. For that I am grateful. I do hope some day we may speak on another level. I do not show everyone my little side. I am not little all the time. As I mentioned before I am a Switch. I have my dominant times and my submissive times, my little times and even my mommy times. 🙂 I am a diamond with many sides. I am a special girl who requires a special man to care me in all those different times. Someone who can handle all my sides. I do not want to have to pretend like any of them do not exist when I find the one. If he is the one then I will have to hide nothing. Sometimes it is scary to share some of the more vulnerable sides though. Thank you!
I am a Lost Little Switch looking for my Daddy.
ah okay.. I see..
I think this is about your definition of that word – ”choose”
“She is a woman.. but she chooses to be your baby girl.”
Okay.. you picked up on the idea that a woman may choose shoes or lipstick or her hair colour.. and, naturally, you don’t see the act of regression as a choice.. its part of you.
I totally get that. You’re right..
BUT what I’m saying with this post is that you as the babygirl choose who you show it to.. The woman chooses the daddy who she trusts to show this vulnerable side to.
I’m saying that as a Daddy – its a privilege and an honour that she chooses to reveal this sensitive side of herself ( of any intensity ) to me.
That is the power and the responsibility I speak of – To protect this vulnerability that they have chosen to share with me.
..but also remember..everyone is different .. and that the other girls are probably just as genuine with their desires- but that desire is less constant, it fluctuates, it will be far less predominant in their lives. which can from your point of view where it is far strong seem insincere. It doesn’t mean is a game or a triviality.
But don’t give up hope. if you are sincere.. and find a guy near you who is just as sincere as you are, someone whose levels match with yours, then you will find the Daddy that your looking for
There are lots of “players” as the slang goes.. on both sides. But it works for them in their lives. You have to identify where your coming from clearly and loudly and the right people will pick up those signals and the players will find somewhere else to play and move on.